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How To Move Out After A Breakup

by Tiffiny Alexander 01/06/2019

Whether you’re moving in for the first time with your boyfriend or girlfriend or you’re moving in with a spouse, the thought of breaking up can be scary as far as your property is concerned. Even if you’re simply living with a roommate, rents are awfully high throughout most of the country. It’s difficult to make rent payments from month to month on your own. It’s helpful to live with another person, but what happens if and when you part ways? 


At best, living with another helps your to manage your finances and gives you some companionship. At the worst, living with someone can be one heck of a financial and emotional roller coaster. 


Whatever type of relationship you have aside, trying to figure out who is leaving the property and who is taking what can be a bit of a headache. Even when lawyers are involved, the process can get messy. There are a few different ways that the situation can be handled before you both need to go your separate ways.


Ideas For Coexisting


Many times, you may need to live in a space where you’re uncomfortable for awhile before you are able to part ways with the person you’re living with. Here are some ideas to get you through the transition period: 


  • Live together yet apart
  • Stay in separate rooms, work different shifts
  • Put beds in separate places



Dividing Property


Try to have one partner buy the other out. If one roommate needs a couch and you have no interest in it, let them buy it. Splitting things evenly isn’t always possible, but sometimes need can outweigh the messy process of dividing property. Do what’s best for you and any pets involved in the process. This is a basic rule of thumb that can help you through the process of dividing your property.  


Who Stays On The Property?


Once it has been established that the two of you will coexist for some time before you go your separate ways, you’ll need to decide which one of you (if either of you) will stay on the property. Generally, if you’re under a lease, it will be much more financially sound for one person to take over the lease and for the other person to go. This can save on costly fees involved with breaking the lease. If you’re thinking of subletting the place you’re living, be sure to check on the restrictions in your area or made in your rental agreements. 


No matter who you are living with, going your separate ways can be difficult. With a little communication, the process can be executed smoothly.

About the Author
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Tiffiny Alexander

 

Tiffiny Alexander is an award-winning broker in both California and Arizona. She’s a wine country native, bringing more than two decades of market knowledge and industry experience to those she serves. The hallmark of her business acumen is marked by her blue-collar-work-ethic roots coupled with a cornerstone concept of always being able to put her name to her work. Tiffiny has handled an array of residential, land, and commercial real estate requisites. She is an International Certified Luxury Home Marketing Specialist, leveraging a global reach of industry relationships to better serve her clients. She enjoys the opportunity to work and play in both The Valley of the Moon (her Northern California headquarters), as well as The Valley of the Sun (her Scottsdale and Phoenix Arizona office). She’s mastered the art of connecting her clients with the American Dream of building wealth through real estate; be that primary residence, destination get-away, or cash flow investment opportunities. 

 

Tiffiny is passionate about the outdoors, art, and the architecture found in abundance throughout the Sonoran Desert as well as the wine country of Northern California. Where can she be found when not immersed in all things real estate?  Hiking or running the local trails, teaching art in the Rincon Valley School District and introducing new local artists to the community at Fulton Crossing Gallery in Santa Rosa, California. Tiffiny grew up on a ranch in Northern California well stocked with farm animals, fresh eggs, and produce, She’s a farm-to-table foodie, whether its fine dining or family-style. And while she enjoys the luxuries of a five-star resort, she’s just as happy backpacking some of the amazing places thoughtfully preserved for the nature-lover in her. 

 

Tiffiny is the founder of Cannabis Land Brokers, the flagship real estate group dedicated to helping cultivators and distributors buy, sell, and lease cannabis zoned real estate. She is committed to legal, responsible, and sustainable business practices for the industry. She works locally and nationally to connect and inform owners and growers through her work with The National Cannabis Industry Association.  

 

"Everything comes from the land. All of our stories start with some small patch of it. The soil feeds us. The earth grounds us. Vistas inspire us. Our truest sense of progress points back to our stewardship of the land.” - Tiffiny Alexander